The Intro

Multiple Sclerosis. Shortened to MS. What does that mean? Oh, so many things. A couple of really scary words to come out of your doctor’s mouth, first of all. At first hearing those words I was in shock. My mind immediately went to the only thing I knew about MS – the worst case scenario of a family friend who the last time I saw was barely walking with a cane and surely bound for a wheel chair. She had very little eye sight. Bladder problems. She slept all the time. This vision has evolved over time as the more people I’ve told shared with me that their Mom, their friend, their neighbor has it and they are “just fine.” We’ll talk about that in more detail down the road, but yes, I’ve learned that humans with MS are out there and living “normal” functioning lives. So MS doesn’t have to mean My Sickness anymore. It doesn’t have to mean My Slow decline. In more recent months MS has flourished really into a deeper connection with My Spirituality. It is really hard, I am not going to lie. It is a physical and emotional roller coaster, but in many ways I am incredibly grateful for the lessons it has taught me about getting in tune with my physical body, finding a deeper connection to my spirituality, living my life with a higher level of heart and soul, and getting a little older (and hopefully wiser) along the way. Without further ado, here is the rundown on how this all started.

My symptoms started somewhere around 2015. I was tired a lot, had some lower back pain and had a weird little black spot in my eye that would follow my vision – a “floater” apparently. It only lasted a couple of days and wasn’t painful or disrupting my vision enough to be concerning. The fatigue was getting overwhelming enough that even driving between Breckenridge and Dillon (a 15 minute trek) I would have to pull over, set an alarm, and close my eye for 15 minutes. I was literally so tired I felt like I would fall asleep at the wheel most days. What was most alarming was the intense pins and needles sensation I started getting that winter. Just walking a few blocks from my office to my car at the end of the work day would leave both my legs feeling completely numb and tingling to the point of pain and lack of complete control. I would have to wait a few minutes for it to pass before I could drive. That didn’t seem like a normal thing to be experiencing, so I made an appointment with my doctor. In discussing my symptoms, we decided that maybe I was a little low in B vitamins and that B12 shots would help my energy levels. My low back pain could be genetic, my dad suffers from sciatica so we decided to do an MRI on my spine. The leg numbness was weird, but I was otherwise super healthy, so heck, let’s send Aimee to the Ophthalmologist to rule out MS and then we’ll keep going down the line to see what’s going on. That referral to the eye doctor was so unimportant to me that it stayed on my fridge for about 2 months before my husband finally said, “Hey, what’s this? You should probably go get that checked out.” “Yeah, yeah, I’ll make an appointment tomorrow…”

In the next week or so I visited the Ophthalmologist for the first time. My eyes were in perfect shape, no glasses needed and I showed no typical signs that someone with MS would have. There was one question he asked me, which turned out to be quite important. “Do you get blurry vision when you get out of the hot tub or shower?” I had to think about it. Yeah, I guess I did now that he mentioned it. It certainly wasn’t one of my chief complaints at the time, so I’m glad he had the wherewithal to ask. Apparently it is common for folks with MS to have blurry vision and for other symptoms to worsen when their body temperature rises. He added “brain” to my MRI order. After they shoved a very claustrophobic Aimee in a tube for a couple of hours and had some MRI images to analyse, I got a call from the doctor’s office saying my lower back looked fine. They couldn’t discuss the brain results with me on the phone and were referring me to Neurology. I still didn’t think anything of it, made my appointment down in Denver with a Neurologist in my insurance network and on a sunny day in June 2016 heard a very smart lady tell me, “You have MS.”

What? Completely unfathomable. Not at all what I was expecting to hear. What about my Dad’s sciatica? What do you mean I have MS? I have no family history and I love eating vegetables. I’m healthy, god dammit! I looked at the MRI images with her as she explained that the location and patterning of the fluffy little white spots in the picture were very typical of someone with MS. I had also described to her an electric, zipping line of tingling that shot down my spine when I put my chin down toward my chest in some yoga poses lately. That is called L’Hermitte’s sign, she said. Also common in MS patients. She said I could get a second opinion, but that she was positive I had MS. Those little white spots in my brain, and also down along my spine, were (and are) lesions. They are damaged, wounded areas in my Central Nervous System that don’t typically go away. “Sclerosis” technically means a hardening of body tissue, or scar tissue. Thus Multiple Sclerosis can be thought of as “Multiple Scarring.”

How does this happen? MS is considered an auto-immune disease, and for some unknown reason the body decides to start attacking itself. In MS, the immune system attacks the sheath or coating aka ‘myelin’ that surrounds the nerve cells in the brain and spinal cord. Think of the plastic coating around wires that mice like to chew through. This myelin sheath is what your body’s electrical impulses travel through and make your nerves work as they are supposed to. When your immune system attacks it, I can tell you with confidence that they don’t work right. I often experience numbness, tingling, nephropathy/nerve pain that I can only describe as an intense icy/hot sensation and skin sensitivity like I’ve been stung by a jelly fish that occurs in many parts of my body including my feet, legs, midsection, up my spine, down my arms and into my hands. Sometimes when I’m trying to sleep my entire body likes to have a slight buzzing feeling that tends to be quite distracting. I’m tired a lot mostly because I assume my body is constantly attacking itself. Imbalance and weakness sometimes prohibit me from enjoying hockey, yoga, running, or snowboarding at the levels I used to. The worst part is the unknown. I don’t know if these are things I have to deal with sporadically (manageable) or if they will get dramatically worse in intensity and persistence. It can be really depressing to have a flare up because it’s an unavoidable reminder that my body isn’t working perfectly, and may get worse in the future.

Sounds fun, right? My symptoms have evolved over time. Every day is a little different, and as I mentioned, my gratitude for paying attention to my body, connecting with my mind and spirit, getting older in general have only grown with my diagnosis. I’ve had many realizations in the past few years tied to MS, but my biggest to date is that I must find and love myself because at the end of the day all I have is my “being.” This has been made incredibly clear by the physical pain I’ve had and knowing that I have the potential to end up in a wheel chair or be physically limited enough to not enjoy activities I do now. I best be okay with the human I am on the inside if my exterior abilities start to fail me. Thank goodness my value as a person isn’t determined by how fast I can hike up a mountain, eh?

It has taken me a few years to work through the acceptance that I have MS. I was nervous to tell people for a long time. I needed some time to process but I also didn’t want people to judge me or think of me differently and only see me as my diagnosis or say “she skates pretty good for someone with MS.” This disease has been a big part of my life, but now it’s front and center. I am not only starting to accept it, but embrace it. I don’t want to be defined only by my diagnosis, but I also can’t pretend it isn’t just as big a piece of my life as who I married or where I come from. It is as unchangeable as how tall I am and will inevitably effect me, the decisions I make, and how I experience life. I was nervous that people would think I was making excuses or not believe me because of my positive attitude. Not to mention how hard it is to articulate how I am feeling mentally or physically at any given moment. I also didn’t, and don’t, want people to worry. I want to make sure that in sharing my story that people know it’s okay to feel what you feel inside, set boundaries (I’m learning!) but still be you. For those of you that know me, I guess I just wasn’t sure where to start with all that, so if you haven’t felt like you’ve gotten the whole story, it’s not personal. I love you. I’m working through all this and hopefully this blog will give you insight into what makes me tick. Know that I am okay. I appreciate your support more than I can put into words.


Back to that day at the doctor’s office. I was immediately recommended a couple of medications. (Tecfidera or Copaxone.) I did some research and at the time decided that the negative side effects didn’t outweigh the benefits. So I delved into alternative medicine and started there in my wheel house, with what I was comfortable with. Acupuncture/herbs and yoga worked quite well for my first 3 years with MS. I felt very strongly that I didn’t want to be on immune suppressors and be sick all the time. I didn’t want to hurt my body even more. I wanted to work WITH my body through this and not attack it back, even though it was betraying me in a way. I also read a lot of stories about progressive MS taking over when western medicine only was involved. Diet, what you put into and nourish your body with (Food Is Medicine!), exercise and lifestyle choices made a dramatic improvement and that people previously in wheel chairs are out and about walking again (more on the Wahls Protocol later). Flash forward to December 2019 – I felt like such a failure when my biggest flare up yet hit. I was served a hardcore dose of reality that a positive outlook and alternative medicine wasn’t enough. But then I realized, why have I been assuming that western and eastern medicine are mutually exclusive? Why can’t there be a way to integrate both? I’m excited to share with you the collaborative approach I have been taking and what has and hasn’t worked for me.

Putting all this experience into a human context is important to me. I get the magazines, I’ve watched the webinars, spent hours online researching, but I haven’t seen much out there that I’ve felt is a real human story with substance, that I can connect and relate to as someone living with MS. There are so many articles out there that are just surface fluff, a few stats thrown in like I don’t already know that heat is a trigger, or more women with MS are getting pregnant these days because more people with MS tend to be women of child bearing age. Who are the people behind those numbers? I haven’t found stories that aren’t heavily edited that I can relate to and I’ve been craving something real, a human connection. (How many times can I say “human” here?) I hope that my words are that connection for you. This is my journey and I know yours, or a loved one, or an acquaintance’s may be much different, but my hope is that you will leave this blog inspired. I hope we are brought together to discuss what works and what doesn’t, as this is an ever-changing and unfolding process. If one sentence resonates with one human that impacts their life in a positive way, then I’ve achieved my purpose. The more I tell people about my diagnosis, the more I hear of a friend, a mom, a neighbor who has MS or another auto-immune disease underlying their entire lives. I’ve had heartfelt and helpful conversations with some of these people. Let’s do that here.

Let’s come together and connect. Let’s change how we and those around us perceive this journey with MS. Or life in general, man! I want to know your story and how you and those around you feel. My writing may meander, be repetitive at times, and feel like a giant endless stream of consciousness, but it is quite literally an extension of my mind and body. I’ll do my best to organize my thoughts into coherent meaningful portrayals of my journey. May you be inspired, empowered, and encouraged as you make each step along your own path.


Side note: I am not a medical professional or doctor. I am just putting my experiences into words that you can hopefully pull from and use what works for you. Always consult with your trusted medical professionals and support team that surrounds you before making life-altering decisions. And please, please, please feel free to comment and share as much or as little as you’d like about your personal experiences. Your words will fall on non-judgmental and loving ears. This will be cathartic for me, I’m sure, but I also want those who know me to understand me a little better. I also hope to make new connections – there are a lot of us out there working our way through an auto-immune disease or chronic condition and we are stronger together. Do not hesitate to pass this blog link along to a friend or coworker if you think it may spark a bit of hope, joy, inspiration, or help a fellow human in anyway. Thank you for reading, and all the best to you and your journey. – All the love, Aimee

Published by Aimee Straw

Diagnosed with MS at 29, my journey toward higher heart and soul really began to unfold and flourish a few years later when I started to accept, and embrace, who I really am. There are many lessons to learn along the way and I am excited to share my story in the hopes that I can connect with and inspire others.

3 thoughts on “The Intro

  1. Thank you for this great post! I understand your thoughts when you were diagnosed with MS because I felt the same. I was diagnosed almost 20 years ago and I was so young. I was terrified because the only person I knew with MS was my biological father’s wife and she was in a wheelchair. I feared that was going to be my future and cried my eyes out. Then I talked to my grandfather who I idolized and made a promise to never surrender to this illness. Almost 20 years later I am not in a wheelchair. Of course I have had bad times due to relapses and suffer from pain, but I tell myself it could be worse. I started my blog 3 years ago and love it! I have met so many others that deal with MS and we all deal in different ways. I am looking forward to many more posts from you and getting to know you. I also hope if you have the time, you will check out my site. I do the best I can to spread as much positivity as I can, while being very honest and real. I hope you have wonderful weekend! Take care!


    1. Thank you so much for sharing! At 29 I was certainly not expecting to hear that I had MS and although held it together at the doctors office, immediately went to my car to bawl my eyes out. I have my moments still but remind myself to take a set amount of time to let it out and then move on. I feel like I’ve come so far, a huge part thanks to others like you to look to as a guiding positive light. I would love to know more of your story and look forward to following your posts as well. Cheers to the journey and living our best lives 💛

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      1. You are more than welcome! I totally understand keeping it together while in the doctors office, but once alone in the car the tears come and do not stop. I am more than happy to share as much as anyone wants and if you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask! I am so sorry I was so delayed in responding. My mother in law was here all weekend and today is my husband’s birthday!


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